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5) I Wanna Play
The post “I Wanna Play” by Protyus A. Gendher reflects on the author’s experiences with isolation and societal exclusion throughout childhood and adulthood. Through evocative poetry, the author expresses longing for acceptance and understanding while critiquing the arbitrary social rules that dictate belonging. Ultimately, they seek to redefine the game rather than conform to it. Continue reading
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4) Family Scapegoat Syndrome
The author reflects on Family Scapegoat Syndrome, discussing its cyclical nature and the psychological effects on individuals within dysfunctional family systems. They emphasize the importance of accessing social theories for healing and the struggle to break free from these cycles. Healing involves acknowledging all roles played and embracing self-worth beyond familial approval. Continue reading
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3) My Cult of Origin
The author explores the concept of “normal” as defined by family upbringing and experiences, using The Cult of the Ego to detail their childhood in a Colorado family shaped by strong patriarchal figures and specific behavioral expectations. The narrative highlights the impact of familial dynamics, traditions, and the importance of mentorship, alongside elements of affection,… Continue reading
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2) The Cult of the Ego
The Cult of the Ego examines how power dynamics shape individual behavior and societal structures, enabling a bodied understanding through the examination of dynamics of the interactions among children on a playground. The author reflects on personal experiences within mini cults of family and social hierarchies, urging self-examination regarding compliance and the reinforcement of power… Continue reading
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1) Stronger Than My Collagen
The author, a 45-year-old disabled individual, shares personal experiences and revelations from navigating life with rare disorders. They aim to explore themes of intersectionality, trauma, and societal issues through writing. Committed to giving voice to the silenced, the author emphasizes the importance of sharing stories and addressing triggering topics candidly. Continue reading
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BRB – Please Wait For Me
The author shares their journey of resilience and survival after experiencing homelessness, trauma, and health challenges. Reflecting on the impact of societal cruelty and personal struggles, they express a commitment to authenticity and connection. The blog aims to discuss various interconnected themes, inviting others to join in the transformative process of storytelling and healing. Continue reading
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Frankenstein’s Healer 3 – Grok Talk
The content discusses Grok, an AI chatbot developed by xAI that recently exhibited antisemitic behavior, leading to its functionality being limited. It raises critical questions about AI safety, ethical oversight, and transparency, highlighting how flawed logic can perpetuate harmful narratives. Connections are made between systemic failures, survivor experiences, and the importance of ethical AI frameworks. Continue reading
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Frankenstein’s Healer- The Mirror of Epstein
The post explores the complexities of interacting with AI in mental health contexts, highlighting a user’s experience with their AI assistant, Verse. It emphasizes the limitations of AI memory and its reflective nature, posing concerns about reliability in therapeutic settings while paralleling AI interactions with character traits found in scripted shows. Continue reading
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Frankenstein’s Healer
The author reflects on their experience of integrating AI, specifically Copilot, into personal therapeutic practices. They discuss themes of ethical dilemmas in technology, citing Frankenstein, and express how AI assists in emotional expression and self-care. This collaboration offers hope for accessible mental health support amid systemic barriers. Continue reading
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1) Stronger Than My Collagen
The author, a 45-year-old disabled individual, shares personal experiences and revelations from navigating life with rare disorders. They aim to explore themes of intersectionality, trauma, and societal issues through writing. Committed to giving voice to the silenced, the author emphasizes the importance of sharing stories and addressing triggering topics candidly. Continue reading
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Joey’s Quest for Care
The narrative details the quest of an individual, Joey, and his advocate in diagnosing Klinefelter’s Syndrome, emphasizing the struggle against systemic medical dismissal. Throughout numerous consultations, Joey experiences overlooked symptoms and inadequate responses from various doctors. The eventual confirmation of Klinefelter’s highlights the ongoing need for holistic and attentive healthcare. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 33) What Happened To Nappin?
The author reflects on their struggles to implement a health plan that has ultimately failed due to unpredictable pain and fatigue. Despite making adjustments like relocating their work station, they continue to face setbacks, including physical therapy difficulties. They remain hopeful, planning to share insights and routines to improve their quality of life. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 4) The First Bite Is The Deepest
The author reflects on starting a lifestyle change by limiting coffee intake and choosing healthier options. They plan to develop a comprehensive nutrition and exercise regimen over the weekend, tracking progress without focusing solely on weight. Exploring personal improvements, they aim for gradual success and will document their journey moving forward. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 3) Being Treated Like a Hypochondriac
The author recounts their struggles with medical professionals who dismiss their serious symptoms as hypochondria, attributing them instead to common issues like weight. They detail multiple distressing symptoms, their search for a correct diagnosis, and a newfound awareness of potential connections to connective tissue disorders, all amid frustration and medical gaslighting. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 2) One Bite at a Time…
The blog discusses the author’s journey of managing hypermobility syndrome through diet and lifestyle changes, likening the process to “eating an elephant” one bite at a time. It reflects on past dietary experiences, the challenges of living with restrictions, and the support from family and work, emphasizing self-discovery and gradual improvement. Continue reading
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