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Getting Out by Protyus A. Gendher Getting Out Beware when person chooses themself It is a harbinger of change The very first indication That nothing will stay the same The slightest shift inside the soul That makes them matter within Like a force of nature finally released Flooding through the skin Once the epitome of sacrifice A selfless giving waste Discovered has a right to life Now… Continue reading
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The post discusses the significance of Bonobos and other non-aggressive cultures in understanding dysregulation within society. It highlights how these groups demonstrate mechanisms for regulating aggression and power dynamics, contrasting them with societies that favor power for its own sake. Ultimately, it advocates for examining and learning from these cycle-breaking models. - Behind the Scenes with Protyus A. Gendher
Protyus A. Gendher reflects on the challenges of healing and the emotional toll of past criticisms on their creative work. While grappling with self-doubt and invasive thoughts, Gendher re-evaluates these critiques, realizing they stem from others’ discomfort rather than true flaws in their artistry. Healing involves embracing vulnerability and authenticity. - Survivor Literacy – You weren’t hard to love. You were easy to exploit
The content emphasizes that being called “difficult” for setting boundaries is a reflection of others’ entitlement, not one’s worth. It promotes Survivor Literacy to reclaim the narrative around personal value, asserting that individuals are not problematic but rather resources that have been exploited. The focus is on recognizing one’s true worth. - Homeless Internment Camps
Homeless Internment Camps A good friend working with camp hope sent me this. I think we all need to watch… Read more: Homeless Internment Camps - Survivor Literacy – Your boundaries aren’t rude. They’re repairs.
The post emphasizes that boundaries are essential for personal healing and safety. They should be viewed as necessary repairs to past intrusions rather than acts of rebellion. By setting boundaries, individuals restore integrity and build a secure environment, highlighting that these actions promote relational health rather than hostility. - It’s All Sales – So Special It’s Killing Us
It’s All Sales – So Special It’s Killing Us Humans Specialized A long time ago, in lands far away and… Read more: It’s All Sales – So Special It’s Killing Us - 9) Adult Supervision Required (TW) – Revisited
The author adjusts to life in Indiana on a sharp learning curve. - Together at Last
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Beneficial Negativity My character is a natural mixture of postmodern and critical theories through the lens of repeated trauma. I… Read more: Beneficial Negativity - Survivor Literacy – You weren’t too sensitive — the environment was too unsafe
The content emphasizes that sensitivity in unsafe environments shouldn’t be seen as weakness. It argues that reactions perceived as excessive are actually accurate responses to instability. The concept of Survivor Literacy shifts responsibility away from individuals, highlighting that clarity in perception is not a flaw, but an understanding of the surrounding danger. - 8) What’s Abuse? – Revisited
The post explores the complex and culturally nuanced definitions of abuse, highlighting practices such as child circumcision and finger cutting within specific tribes. It questions societal norms that normalize harmful behaviors and reflects on personal accountability. The author emphasizes the need for honest self-examination regarding actions that may cause harm to others. - Survivor Literacy Requires Cycle Breaking
Survivor Literacy Requires Cycle Breaking Erasing the silence is more than speaking up. It’s breaking the cycles that tried to… Read more: Survivor Literacy Requires Cycle Breaking - Survivor Literacy -Your ‘overreaction’ was a perfectly calibrated alarm
The content discusses how what may seem like an overreaction is often the body’s early warning system recognizing danger based on past experiences. It emphasizes that these alarms are accurate and rooted in survival instincts, suggesting a reframing of such responses from dysfunction to valuable data for understanding safety. - Nobody Can Afford This
Nobody Can Afford This Volume Two isn’t quite up yet. 🙂 🔥 NEW RELEASE: NOBODY CAN AFFORD THIS — A… Read more: Nobody Can Afford This
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