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68) Anywhere But Here
The author reflects on their lack of financial literacy education in high school, highlighting experiences in home economics that focused on practical skills rather than budgeting or managing finances. They recount their journey to freedom after leaving a controlling home life, where they had to learn independence and self-worth while feeling that financial knowledge was… Continue reading
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3) My Cult of Origin
The author explores the concept of “normal” as defined by family upbringing and experiences, using The Cult of the Ego to detail their childhood in a Colorado family shaped by strong patriarchal figures and specific behavioral expectations. The narrative highlights the impact of familial dynamics, traditions, and the importance of mentorship, alongside elements of affection,… Continue reading
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2) The Cult of the Ego – Revisited
The Cult of the Ego examines how power dynamics shape individual behavior and societal structures, enabling a bodied understanding through the examination of dynamics of the interactions among children on a playground. The author reflects on personal experiences within mini cults of family and social hierarchies, urging self-examination regarding compliance and the reinforcement of power… Continue reading
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32) Sisters Part Three
The narrative explores the author’s complex upbringing under a mother who employed strict, dog-training-like tactics to mold her children, often indulging in power struggles. This led to emotional manipulation and gaslighting, impacting behavior and self-worth. The author reflects on the environment that fostered validation through parenting methods devoid of empathy. Continue reading
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20) Conformity
Conformity drives group behavior, influencing beliefs and actions, often unconsciously. It fosters belonging but can also lead to heinous acts. Studies like Asch’s and Milgram’s reveal the strength of peer pressure and obedience. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for resisting harmful group norms and fostering individual critical thinking. Continue reading
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15) Starting Over- Revisited
The post reflects on personal experiences of childhood trauma and healing, highlighting the significance of supportive relationships, like a caring teacher during difficult times, and memorable family trips. It addresses themes of grief, resilience, and the challenges of navigating societal expectations while coping with loss and navigating adolescence. Continue reading
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