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64) Emotional Ambush
The author reflects on their struggle with emotional ambushes, feeling unworthy of their pain and ashamed of their emotional responses. They highlight the deep impact these ambushes can have on children, shaping adult behaviors and fears. The post emphasizes the importance of breaking this cycle for healthier emotional development. Continue reading
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78) Ditch Please
The narrator reflects on their challenging summer working at a ranch, facing low pay and personal insecurities. Despite enjoying the experience and camaraderie, they struggle with feelings of inadequacy as mistakes mount. Ultimately, they feel undervalued and question their worth amidst financial pressures and family judgments, leading to self-doubt and introspection. Continue reading
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Public Shaming
Public shaming in educational settings has severe detrimental effects on children’s identity and mental health. It fosters fear, resentment, and low self-esteem, and reinforces negative behaviors such as bullying. A nurturing environment, free from humiliation, is critical for fostering growth, vulnerability, and overall wellbeing in children facing diverse challenges. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – A Tour of the Ecosystem
A Tour of the Ecosystem It all started small. A single thread.A single question.A single pattern repeating in the lives of people who were hurting and couldn’t explain why. That thread became Invisibly Misdiagnosed — a place to map what was happening beneath the surface.But the more it grew, the more it revealed.And the more… Continue reading
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73) What is a Juggalo?
The author rolls with the punches as life takes twists and turns through Pinedale, WY. Continue reading
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72) Stranded
The author recounts their experience in Pinedale after a friend is arrested. Feeling vulnerable and relying on the hospitality of a local pastor’s family, they struggle with uncomfortable dynamics while trying to find stability. Eventually, they escape to live with a more relatable friend, seeking independence and employment after weeks of turmoil. Continue reading
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100) *Leggo My Preggo Part Four
The author finally finds themself alone with their crush, and it heats up. Continue reading
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71) Wyoming by Way of Utah Part 3
The narrative describes a road trip through Utah to Salt Lake City, highlighting the challenges and experiences along the way. The protagonist deals with personal reflections on relationships and the cultural differences in Utah. After engaging with friends and facing car troubles, they consider a future in Wyoming, yearning for freedom and nature. Continue reading
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70) Wyoming by Way of Utah Part Two
In “Wyoming by Way of Utah Part Two,” the narrator recounts a chaotic road trip filled with challenges, including losing crucial belongings and navigating unexpected situations. While seeking jobs and support, emotions ran high among friends. Ultimately, they find the lost planner, restoring hope and camaraderie amidst their struggles. Continue reading
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69) Wyoming by Way of Utah- Part One
The narrative explores a journey of liberation from a toxic family environment. It reflects on mental preparation, self-discovery, and authenticity amidst conflicting identities. The protagonist confronts past trauma, embraces freedom, and values their evolution. Despite challenges, they find fulfillment in their choices and the beauty of the diverse world ahead. Continue reading
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99) Leggo My Preggo Part Three
The narrator grapples with feelings of hurt over family dynamics while navigating a newfound pregnancy and complex workplace relationships. As they develop a crush on Elway, a married coworker, their interactions draw scrutiny from a friend. Despite challenges, they share moments of connection, highlighting the intricacies of young love and friendship. Continue reading
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68) Anywhere But Here
The author reflects on their lack of financial literacy education in high school, highlighting experiences in home economics that focused on practical skills rather than budgeting or managing finances. They recount their journey to freedom after leaving a controlling home life, where they had to learn independence and self-worth while feeling that financial knowledge was… Continue reading
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98) Leggo My Preggo Part Two
The narrator navigates pregnancy at eighteen, revealing the challenges of societal expectations and a strained relationship with her mother. Supportive friends provide some comfort, while revealing doubts from others amplify feelings of inadequacy. A pivotal phone call with her mother confirms disapproval as she faces lack of familial support and harsh judgments about her situation. Continue reading
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97) Leggo My Preggo Part One
The author reflects on her unexpected pregnancy at 18, navigating her emotions and family expectations. She appreciates the support from the father of her child, emphasizing her independence and determination to raise the child on her terms. She embraces motherhood as a significant rite of passage filled with love and purpose. Continue reading
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36) My Childhood In Pictures
The post shares a nostalgic glimpse into the author’s childhood through a collection of photos, starting from a young age and including family members and pets. It reflects on hair struggles, school memories, and a specific International Day celebration. The author invites readers to enjoy this visual journey into their past. Continue reading
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