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11) Dad – Revisited
The author reflects on their fragmented relationship with their biological father and the subsequent grief of losing their stepfather. Memories reveal a complex family dynamic filled with love, regret, and longing for connection. Despite challenges, the impact of both father figures highlights the desire for understanding and acceptance amid profound loss. Continue reading
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10) *Adult Supervision Required (TW) Part Two – Revisited
The author describes sexual abuse from their childhood. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – It Looks Different From Here
Survivor Literacy – It Looks Different From Here The world looks different from the vantage point of someone who’s lived through chronic unpredictability, emotional whiplash, or the quiet terror of someone else’s mood deciding the temperature of the day.If you’ve ever had a dish angrily washed at you, you know what I mean. If you’ve… Continue reading
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24) It’s Ok
The content explores the complexities of grief through a reflective lens. It emphasizes that it’s acceptable to experience various emotions during mourning, highlighting the notion that one can feel both okay and not okay simultaneously. The author encourages self-acceptance and underscores the importance of personal healing journeys. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy -Your story didn’t end in survival. It begins in literacy.
Survivor Literacy emphasizes that survival is just the beginning of one’s journey. Gaining literacy is essential for understanding personal experiences, transforming survival into clarity and freedom. This shift enables individuals to comprehend their narratives and the impact of their experiences, marking the start of a more empowered story. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – You weren’t confused. You were being manipulated.
The content emphasizes that confusion experienced by individuals is often a result of manipulation, gaslighting, and coercive tactics rather than a personal failing. It highlights the concept of “induced confusion,” asserting that clarity was deliberately targeted to destabilize perceptions, reinforcing the importance of recognizing these tactics in abusive relationships. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – Your resilience wasn’t a compliment — it was a requirement
The concept of resilience is reframed as a necessity for survival rather than a commendable trait. The narrative emphasizes that individuals who endure hardship do so not from choice, but from the demand to survive in harmful environments. Their strength reflects survival costs, not personal virtue. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – You didn’t misread the room. You read the danger.
The post emphasizes that survivors often accurately perceive danger before others, countering the notion of “paranoia.” It advocates for “Survivor Literacy,” which recognizes these perceptions as legitimate insights rather than anxiety. The idea is that the survivor’s ability to read the environment is a skill shaped by experience, not a flaw. Continue reading
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14) Aftermath – Revisited
After the author’s father’s suicide due to schizophrenia, their family faced overwhelming grief and societal stigma surrounding mental illness. The author took on responsibilities to support their mother and younger siblings while coping with their own numbness and confusion. The birth of a new sister brought moments of joy amidst their sorrow, fostering a deeper… Continue reading
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6) SCRIPT Theory – Revisited
The SCRIPT theory discusses how social interactions rely on predefined scripts that shape perceptions and relationships. These scripts guide communication and behavior, reinforcing social norms and expectations. While they can restrict authenticity, individuals have the potential to create new scripts for personal expression, challenging established norms and promoting self-awareness within society. Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – Accessibility
Survivor Literacy – Accessibility We all have brains, but we don’t all have the time, money, or ability to go get a psychology degree. We all experience crises in our lives, but we don’t all have supportive networks with healing SCRRIPPTTs. That doesn’t mean that we don’t all need, or deserve them. Everything in America… Continue reading
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1) Stronger Than My Collagen
The author, a 45-year-old disabled individual, shares personal experiences and revelations from navigating life with rare disorders. They aim to explore themes of intersectionality, trauma, and societal issues through writing. Committed to giving voice to the silenced, the author emphasizes the importance of sharing stories and addressing triggering topics candidly. Continue reading
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Glass Ceiling Records – Song Archive – The Shape The Light Was Taking
The song “The Shape the Light Was Taking” explores the impact of trauma on the body, characterized by intentional repetition to create a grounding loop rather than a traditional chorus. It is described as a clarity song, inviting listeners to reflect on their experiences. Available on major streaming platforms. Continue reading
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Behind the Process- “Gonna Have to Love Ourselves”
The blog post chronicles the evolution of a song from a personal self-love anthem to a global testament of resilience. It explores various musical genres, reflecting ancestral truths and communal healing. Ultimately, it conveys a journey through shared human experiences, transforming individual pain into a collective ritual of survival and recognition. Continue reading
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Letter to an Unlikely Helper
Letter to an Unlikely Helper Now that some time has passed, I want to take a moment to truly offer thanks. If I hadn’t been handed that simple phrase — “Let Them” — I might never have realized how deeply I was drowning and how desperately I needed change. The crisis it triggered ended up… Continue reading
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