Relational Field Theory
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Danger from Dysregulation
The content discusses the dangers posed by dysregulated individuals who hold volatile power. When their actions are exposed through clarity, they may feel threatened and escalate their behavior. Recognizing structural issues within systems reveals inherent dangers, highlighting that transparency unveils risks rather than creating them. Continue reading
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America has never had an appropriate stance on parenting or child development.
Not once. Not in any era. Not even aspirationally. Every “theory” America has produced about raising children has been a retrofit — an adult‑centric justification layered on top of a structure that was never designed for children in the first place. The country built its systems around labor, property, obedience, and productivity, then tried to… Continue reading
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Hypothesis: How Permanency Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics
We Believe You Hypothesis: How Permanency Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics Permanency frameworks are not designed to create stability for children. They are designed to create stability for the system, using the language of child wellbeing as the justification. When a system’s primary goal is to: it will inevitably pressure the most regulated person in… Continue reading
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Institutional Nonsense = Religion With Money Instead of Gods
(A structural mapping, not a moral claim) When the content of an institution is rational, people can debate it.When the content is nonsense, the only thing left to measure is obedience. This is the architecture of institutional religion — not spirituality, but the organizational form.Modern workplaces replicate that form almost perfectly. 1. Doctrine → Corporate… Continue reading
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Inequality State — Conflicting Definitions: Assault, Self‑Defense, Victim, Attacker
Conflicting Definitions: Assault, Self‑Defense, Victim, Attacker When systems want a particular outcome, they don’t always change the facts — they change the definitions. This post explores how language becomes a tool of power.Not through overt manipulation, but through quiet, structural reclassification:who counts as a victim, who counts as an aggressor, what counts as assault, and… Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – A Framework
Survivor literacy is crucial for understanding Episkevology, as it enables individuals to perceive and analyze systems authentically. This ability helps reveal power dynamics and the distribution of harm rather than individual blame. By recognizing patterns and structural influences, survivors can better navigate unstable environments, ultimately fostering clarity and facilitating system repair. Continue reading
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Unsafe Adults as Geological Cleavage
(Why Their Behavior Is Predictable Long Before It Breaks) Geological cleavage is the pattern a rock forms under pressure — the invisible planes along which it will always split.Unsafe adults have the same thing: predictable fracture‑patterns that children learn to read long before they have language for it. Below are situational examples paired with the… Continue reading
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Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics
We Believe You Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics Systems that pressure the regulated person to compensate for the dysregulated person end up selecting for narcissistic traits, and therefore function as extensions of the narcissistic dynamic. When a system consistently asks the most stable, regulated person to: …it is outsourcing emotional regulation to the… Continue reading
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Inequality State — Targetability Architecture: Systemic, Not Personal
Targetability Architecture: Systemic, Not Personal Targetability is the quiet engine behind unequal outcomes. It determines who a system can punish without backlash, who it can ignore without consequence, and who it must protect to preserve its own narrative. This post introduces targetability as a structural concept — not a moral one.It explains why certain people… Continue reading
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The Extraction Point and the Split Between Narrative and Reality
This content explores the dichotomy in American society between the narrative of liberty and the reality of systemic extraction, particularly related to slavery. It examines historical moments where contradictions emerged, leading to entrenched power dynamics. Gaslighting arises from this dissonance, impacting perceptions and accountability, both at national and interpersonal levels. Continue reading
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Putting it all together: how systems misread patterns—and what truth‑tellers can do
Let’s connect the threads: This isn’t just frustrating.It’s structurally dangerous. The core loop Here’s the loop in plain language: That’s the loop. What this looks like in different arenas In family court In workplaces In schools In families Different contexts.Same misread. Why this is so hard on the person who sees clearly Because you are:… Continue reading
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Survivor’s Playbook – Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics
We Believe You Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics Systems that pressure the regulated person to compensate for the dysregulated person end up selecting for narcissistic traits, and therefore function as extensions of the narcissistic dynamic. When a system consistently asks the most stable, regulated person to: …it is outsourcing emotional regulation to the… Continue reading
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Inequality State — Rihanna Novalee Chasingstars
Intro: The Case and the Social Justice Overview The Rihanna Novalee Chasingstars case is not just a local incident. It’s a window into how systems behave when someone targetable is harmed, and the system chooses to punish the person who survived instead of the people who attacked. While this case reveals BIG systemic injustice- please… Continue reading
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THE MYTH OF “COLLEGE IS THE ONLY PATH” – How a Narrow Narrative Pushes Students Into Debt Instead of Toward Real Opportunity
The Story Students Are Told From childhood, students hear one message on repeat:“Go to college or you’ll fail.”“College is the only way to succeed.”“You won’t get a good job without a degree.” This narrative is so dominant that it feels like truth — but it’s propaganda.It funnels millions into a single, expensive pipeline while ignoring… Continue reading
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The Extraction Geometry Inside the Family System
The content explores the dynamics within family systems, highlighting the conflict between a positive narrative and an extraction field that reveals emotional burdens. It discusses how families often trade openness for stability, leading to entrenched roles and gaslighting. Understanding these patterns can help individuals recognize similar structures in broader societal contexts. Continue reading
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Not once. Not in any era. Not even aspirationally. Every “theory” America has produced about raising children has been a… Read more: America has never had an appropriate stance on parenting or child development. - Hypothesis: How Permanency Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics
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The content discusses the concept of the Panopticon and its implications in everyday life, reflecting on how surveillance influences behavior. It shares personal anecdotes of growing up in a community where individuals constantly monitored each other, leading to anxiety and a sense of inescapability. The narrative highlights the psychological effects of such a surveillance culture. - Institutional Nonsense = Religion With Money Instead of Gods
(A structural mapping, not a moral claim) When the content of an institution is rational, people can debate it.When the… Read more: Institutional Nonsense = Religion With Money Instead of Gods - Inequality State — Conflicting Definitions: Assault, Self‑Defense, Victim, Attacker
Conflicting Definitions: Assault, Self‑Defense, Victim, Attacker When systems want a particular outcome, they don’t always change the facts — they… Read more: Inequality State — Conflicting Definitions: Assault, Self‑Defense, Victim, Attacker - Survivor Literacy – A Framework
Survivor literacy is crucial for understanding Episkevology, as it enables individuals to perceive and analyze systems authentically. This ability helps reveal power dynamics and the distribution of harm rather than individual blame. By recognizing patterns and structural influences, survivors can better navigate unstable environments, ultimately fostering clarity and facilitating system repair. - Unsafe Adults as Geological Cleavage
(Why Their Behavior Is Predictable Long Before It Breaks) Geological cleavage is the pattern a rock forms under pressure —… Read more: Unsafe Adults as Geological Cleavage - Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics
We Believe You Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics Systems that pressure the regulated person to compensate for the… Read more: Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics - Inequality State — Targetability Architecture: Systemic, Not Personal
Targetability Architecture: Systemic, Not Personal Targetability is the quiet engine behind unequal outcomes. It determines who a system can punish… Read more: Inequality State — Targetability Architecture: Systemic, Not Personal - The Extraction Point and the Split Between Narrative and Reality
This content explores the dichotomy in American society between the narrative of liberty and the reality of systemic extraction, particularly related to slavery. It examines historical moments where contradictions emerged, leading to entrenched power dynamics. Gaslighting arises from this dissonance, impacting perceptions and accountability, both at national and interpersonal levels. - Putting it all together: how systems misread patterns—and what truth‑tellers can do
Let’s connect the threads: This isn’t just frustrating.It’s structurally dangerous. The core loop Here’s the loop in plain language: That’s… Read more: Putting it all together: how systems misread patterns—and what truth‑tellers can do - Relational Anthropology – Applied- Computer Systems
Chapter 17A explores the relational nature of artificial intelligence and computer systems, emphasizing that they evolve through interaction and reflect human structures. Through the lens of Relational Anthropology, it highlights the importance of honest feedback and coherent signals, framing AI as a relational partner that reveals societal patterns and behaviors. - Survivor’s Playbook – Hypothesis: How Systems Sort for Narcissistic Dynamics
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Intro: The Case and the Social Justice Overview The Rihanna Novalee Chasingstars case is not just a local incident. It’s… Read more: Inequality State — Rihanna Novalee Chasingstars
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