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Culture Shock
The poem “Culture Shock” by Protyus A. Gendher emphasizes the importance of overcoming cultural differences to foster understanding and learning. It highlights the need to set aside egos and perspectives that dismiss others, advocating for unity and appreciation of diversity rather than division, which stifles personal and collective growth. Continue reading
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Crisis
The piece “Crisis” by Protyus A. Gendher explores the complexities of mental health, emphasizing its prevalence and societal challenges. It highlights the struggle individuals face with mental illness and the inadequacies of support systems that often punish rather than assist. The work calls for understanding and better resources to genuinely help those in need. Continue reading
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Control
In “Control” by Protyus A. Gendher, the author critiques societal norms surrounding reproduction and the bodily autonomy of people with uteruses. The piece highlights the struggles and frustrations faced by those seeking reproductive choices, emphasizing the need for personal control over one’s body without suffering and judgment, challenging existing laws and gender binaries. Continue reading
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Community
The poem “Community” by Protyus A. Gendher explores the dual nature of community as both a source of healing and a breeding ground for social issues. It emphasizes the importance of connection, support, and shared dreams while acknowledging the challenges posed by greed and social disease. Ultimately, it calls for active participation in fostering healing… Continue reading
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Brave
The poem by Protyus A. Gendher challenges perceptions of bravery and resilience, asserting that an individual’s authenticity should not require validation or glorification of pain. It critiques the tendency to label personal struggles with concepts like “survivor,” urging others to reconsider the implications of such terms on one’s unique experience. Continue reading
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Anxiety
The poem “Anxiety” by Protyus A. Gendher explores the debilitating effects of stress and doubt in relationships. It expresses a desire for genuine connection without the burden of anxiety, emphasizing the need for love to flourish free of fear and uncertainty. Ultimately, it highlights the struggle of couples trapped in cycles of worry and misunderstanding. Continue reading
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Abstinence
Abstinence by Protyus A. Gendher Abstinence Abstinence Abstinence Abstinence I read this shit and none of it makes sense Because nobody I know is doing this I’m pretty sure most “girls” want to see a penis But in my gendered reality This lesson, this teacher, this culture would make a monster out of me For failing to be someone controlled Someone who didn’t Continue reading
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Abortion
This piece takes a deep dive into the caveats of reproductive rights. Continue reading
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Thicker Skin
In “Thicker Skin,” Protyus A. Gendher explores the emotional struggle between vulnerability and self-protection. The speaker questions the need to toughen their heart while desiring genuine connection and self-expression. They grapple with the fear of rejection and the effects of hiding their true self, ultimately seeking safety in sharing their art and identity. Continue reading
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31) Mom’s Mistake
The author reflects on their relationship with their mother, their place in the family, and how they coped. Continue reading
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Drag Therapy
“Drag Therapy” by Protyus A. Gendher explores the journey of self-acceptance and empowerment through drag performance. It addresses confronting personal trauma, societal expectations, and reclaiming identity. The work emphasizes the liberation found in vulnerability, expressing emotions, and the transformative power of art in confronting and celebrating one’s true self. Continue reading
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Don’t Call Me Miss
The poem “Boi” by Protyus A. Gendher explores themes of identity, societal expectations, and self-acceptance. It expresses the struggle of fitting into predefined roles while encouraging authenticity and the recognition of one’s worth. The speaker emphasizes that individuals are valid and valuable just as they are, despite external pressures. Continue reading
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Closet Doors
Closet Doors explores concepts of safety and identity Continue reading
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Before I Knew I Was Trans
Before I Knew I Was Trans by Protyus A. Gendher Before I Knew I Was Trans Before I knew I was trans I sucked at being a girl I sucked at learning all of the prescribed rules I was force-fed in this world. I sucked at keeping my knees together wearing the skirt that they Continue reading
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Zebra Files 21) Prep Is a Four-Letter Word Meaning “Work”
The author shares their journey of implementing lifestyle and meal planning changes, acknowledging the challenges faced due to physical limitations. They emphasize the importance of preparation and adaptability while discussing their weekly meal plan, focusing on easy, repetitive recipes. The author hopes their experiences will inspire others without imposing judgments. Continue reading
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