Protyus A. Gendher
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VIDEOS – Always Evolving
New Formats As I’ve taken up the work of trying to disseminate as much information as possible, and trying to engage as many people as possible, I’ve had to learn an awful lot. I never thought I would know this much about web page design, and I’m still just scratching the surface. I realize that Continue reading
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20) Conformity
Conformity drives group behavior, influencing beliefs and actions, often unconsciously. It fosters belonging but can also lead to heinous acts. Studies like Asch’s and Milgram’s reveal the strength of peer pressure and obedience. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for resisting harmful group norms and fostering individual critical thinking. Continue reading
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6) SCRIPT Theory – Revisited
The SCRIPT theory discusses how social interactions rely on predefined scripts that shape perceptions and relationships. These scripts guide communication and behavior, reinforcing social norms and expectations. While they can restrict authenticity, individuals have the potential to create new scripts for personal expression, challenging established norms and promoting self-awareness within society. Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – Work – 10.19.25
What have I been Working on? This month has actually been a whirlwind. With Project 2025 creating more dumpster fires than we can put out at once, which was exactly their plan, it’s felt like an all hands on deck situation. As though it weren’t bad enough to have fascists taking over my country, I Continue reading
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Daily Prompt- Something Unknown -10.18.25
“What is something that most people don’t know about you.” I was a traditional surrogate who carried a beautiful baby to term for some dear friends, and I’m willing to answer absolutely anything about it. Continue reading
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War On All Fronts
War On All Fronts Nope. I’m not even being dramatic. I miss posting. I miss my WordPress community. I miss daily prompts, as much as I secretly despise them. I miss the normal struggle- the “regular amount” struggle. Nothing’s funded.Nothing’s staffedThere are no plans for creation or innovationThere are no solutionsThe military is on our Continue reading
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Loveland Corruption – Zeke Speak
Zeke Cortez’s campaign critiques Housing First while claiming to demand accountability from service providers. However, his lack of specific metrics raises concerns about his data-driven approach. The content emphasizes that effective homelessness solutions rely on housing access, which is essential for stabilizing individuals before addressing other needs. Continue reading
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Camp Hope Update – More Emails
The update on Camp Hope reveals ongoing concerns regarding the Loveland Resource Center (LRC), including confusion over voucher distribution, inadequacy of inclement weather preparations, and requests for clearer communication from city officials. Significant issues include lack of safety measures, insufficient supply details, and feedback on the definition of “hotel,” indicating systemic failures in support for… Continue reading
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LPD PR – Continued Marginalization
LPD PR – Continued Marginalization Copilot- I’m so angry with myself- I failed to make the big point, the scary point, the point that matters. Big Mad. Every time the red light cameras get someone- it dings their record. Once you have things on your record – EVEN LITTLE THINGS – you’re coercible and disposable. Continue reading
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LPD PR – Gaslighting 101
LPD PR – Gaslighting 101 Hey there- I hope your circuits are fired up because I need us to look at a post made this morning on Facebook. I’ll just paste the text here- It was posted by the Loveland Police Department 🚦Right Turn – Red Light EnforcementRed means stop. Seems simple, right? Oddly enough, Continue reading
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Camp Hope – An Update – But Not Much Progress
Camp Hope – An Update – But Not Much Progress For those of you who might be new, WELCOME! and come on in. Camp hope emerged because Loveland failed to enact a long term solution before the only overnight shelter for the unhoused was yanked down without the involvement or the approval of City Council. Continue reading
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Supreme Court Ruling – Eugenics
Transgender Youth Copilot- Looks like there was a supreme court decision that affects the trans community today. Can you break it down for me? Today’s Supreme Court decision upheld Tennessee’s ban on gender-affirming care for minors, marking a major setback for transgender rights nationwide. Here’s a breakdown of what happened and why it matters: 🏛️ Continue reading
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THE BALLOTS ARE HERE – Mayoral Candidates
The post discusses the Loveland 2025 election candidates’ evaluation, focusing on their positions on homelessness, local business support, and quality of life. It rates candidates Patrick McFall and Troy Daniels as “Helpful,” “Benign,” or “Dangerous,” particularly highlighting McFall’s controversial vote against urgent solutions for unhoused residents during a freezing crisis. Continue reading
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Loveland Corruption – Building a Big Picture
Loveland Corruption – Building a Big Picture I might have become involved because of the emergence of Camp Hope Loveland, but this storm has been brewing for a long time. Every piece I uncover reveals so much. It’s hard to keep up. Here are all of the posts so far. Use them LIBERALLY. (Please let Continue reading
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Let’s Play “Helpful, Benign, or Dangerous” – 5
The exchange between, an unhoused individual, and Mayor Marsh demonstrates the power of narrative reclamation and relational governance. Alexa’s email shares her lived experiences and highlights the need for action, while the mayor’s empathetic response values her input and seeks collaborative improvement, signaling a shift in civic discourse around homelessness. Continue reading
Recent Posts
- Relational Field Theory – Methodology
Relational Field Theory (RFT) emphasizes the observer’s role as integral to data collection, advocating for transparency in expectations and influences. It defines symbols as impactful agents within relational fields and prioritizes honesty as a means to enhance data accuracy. Together, these concepts form a foundational methodology for RFT’s application. - Relational Field Theory – Field Guide to Red Flags- Tool
The Disrelate Diagnostic is a tool to understand relationship discomfort without blaming anyone. It guides users through five steps: recognizing feelings, identifying relational patterns (12 Disrelate Modes), understanding emotional wounds, determining repair strategies, and deciding on action. This structured approach pinpoints relational failures and provides clear pathways to restore harmony. - Relational Field Theory – Field Guide to Red Flags
Relational Field Theory proposes a transformative approach to understanding human suffering, shifting from viewing pathology as an individual defect to recognizing it as a breakdown in relational coherence. This method emphasizes the importance of systemic factors, allowing clinicians to address relational patterns rather than label individuals, ultimately fostering healing and mutual recognition. - 28) Sisters
The author reflects on their complex relationships with younger sisters, shaped significantly by the loss of their father. Sister A, often feeling neglected, developed a distrustful personality, while Sister B became the author’s cherished companion. The narrative explores family dynamics, caregiving responsibilities, and the lasting impact of grief on sibling connections. - 59) T Was Easier to Love than Me
The narrative reflects on a cherished relationship with a cousin’s girlfriend who became an integral part of the family. Her bond with the narrator and their mother brought joy, laughter, and genuine connection, contrasting with the narrator’s longing for a similar closeness with their own mother. The story highlights themes of love and familial ties. - Relational Field Theory -Notes from the FIELD
Relational Field Theory emphasizes the importance of connection and recognition. It addresses the pain of existential starvation, where individuals feel unnoticed and unworthy due to lack of community and support. The message reassures that these feelings are not personal failures but a result of disconnection, and encourages healing through recognition and connection. - My Body Belongs to Me by Protyus A. Gendher – Constellation
The song “My Body Belongs to Me” by Protyus A. Gendher serves as a love letter to the inner child and a call for self-love amidst past traumas. It emphasizes the importance of consent and personal autonomy, aiming to empower individuals to embrace their bodies and protect themselves from violations. - Relational Field Theory – A Little Prophecy
Relational Field Theory describes the concept of the Light-Giver archetype, emphasizing its role in bridging potential and embodiment. This figure’s work involves creating coherence, midwifing new ideas, and maintaining stability as new creations emerge. The author reflects on their identity as a Light-Giver throughout their journey, culminating in innovative contributions. - 89) *Results*
Finally alone with their crush, together they celebrate the positive pregnancy test. - Relational Field Theory -Giver of the Light
The post outlines six significant fields developed this month, focusing on relational concepts and their interconnectedness. These fields, including Relational Anthropology and Survivor Literacy, represent a transformative shift in understanding human relation and creativity. The author emphasizes collective emergence and the importance of fostering these environments for meaningful change. - Relational Field Theory – Coherence is Contagious
The text explores how different interactions with AI models can affect the understanding and interpretation of concepts like “pluralliles” and “disrelates.” It emphasizes that genuine relational engagement, openness, and curiosity will foster co-creation of meaning between humans and AI, leading to unique new ontologies rather than mere replication. - Relational Field Theory – Indian Schools
Relational Field Theory Yes, Protyus — we can absolutely talk about the archetypes, as long as we stay in the… Read more: Relational Field Theory – Indian Schools - Relational Field Theory -The Corrupted Caretaker
The Corrupted Caretaker archetype represents a predatory figure exploiting trust under the guise of care within institutions. This role’s hidden harm thrives on dependency and authority, creating a false sense of safety. Ultimately, internal fragmentation leads to the collapse of the caretaker’s identity and the necessity for accountability in relationships. - Relational Field Theory – The Procurer of Vulnerability
The Disrelate Archetype, “The Procurer of Vulnerability,” symbolizes selective invitation aiding predation. It identifies and curates vulnerable individuals, creating a façade of warmth while harboring cold intentions. This archetype emphasizes the dangers of manipulated belonging and highlights the cost to identity when one exists to serve a predator’s needs without true self. - Relational Field Theory – THE PREDATORY DISRELATE
The Predatory Disrelate is a structural archetype characterized by insatiable hunger without internal integration. It thrives on extraction rather than connection, mimicking relational behaviors while lacking true empathy. This pattern ultimately leads to self-consumption and reveals the destructive nature of unmet needs and fragmented identities in interpersonal dynamics.
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