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Daily Prompt- Something Unknown -10.18.25

“What is something that most people don’t know about you.” I was a traditional surrogate who carried a beautiful baby to term for some dear friends, and I’m willing to answer absolutely anything about it. Continue reading
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Giving the Light

The poem by Protyus A. Gendher explores the concept of “Light Giving,” comparing it to various forms of nurturing, such as mothering, grandmothering, and godmothering. As a light giver, or traditional surrogate, Protyus offers a unique perspective. They Emphasize unconditional love, guidance, and support, while highlighting the beauty of diverse experiences. Ultimately, it portrays light… Continue reading
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