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87) A Place for Me
The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories of familial relationships, particularly with their mother. Amidst building a fulfilling life and career as a CNA, the author navigates feelings of loss, identity, and longing for… Continue reading
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Behind the Scenes with Protyus A. Gendher
Protyus A. Gendher reflects on the challenges of healing and the emotional toll of past criticisms on their creative work. While grappling with self-doubt and invasive thoughts, Gendher re-evaluates these critiques, realizing they stem from others’ discomfort rather than true flaws in their artistry. Healing involves embracing vulnerability and authenticity. Continue reading
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62) Taking a Dip in a Really Big Church
The narrator faced rejection from roommates and felt abandoned by a friend. Despite emotional turmoil, moving into Brocade’s home revitalized their spirit, allowing for personal growth and joy through new activities and belonging at a supportive church. However, pressure from family led to their return home, disrupting progress and freedom. Continue reading
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61) Two Lesbians and a Maintenance Guy
The narrative recounts a young person’s challenging journey of self-discovery while working at a fabric store. After befriending two lesbians and facing difficulties at home, they seek refuge with a maintenance guy, leading to a complicated relationship. Struggles with autonomy and unexpected situations culminate in a peculiar but humorous incident involving handcuffs and a police… Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – Career Path – 10.24.25
Today’s question asks what career path I would choose if I could change it. I think this question assumes that a person grows up, chooses one career, then retires. Guess I did that all wrong. I’ve been: After ALL of that I was working as a dishwasher/cook again when Covid hit, so I used that Continue reading
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87) A Place for Me
The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories of familial relationships, particularly with their mother. Amidst building a fulfilling life and career as a CNA, the author navigates feelings of loss, identity, and longing for… Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – Hard Work – 9.28.25
The author reflects on the misconception of tying self-worth to hard work, stemming from personal struggles and family rejection. They realize that fulfillment comes not from effort or exhaustion, but from the inherent value of the tasks themselves. Hard work can be fulfilling but should not define one’s worthiness. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 8 – Practice
The “Toxicity Toolkit” promotes gradual skill development and encourages families to repeat weekly exercises if needed. It emphasizes understanding and internalizing lessons over merely completing tasks. Continuous practice is essential for success, and audio versions are available on Spotify and Anchor for further exploration. Continue reading
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62) Taking a Dip in a Really Big Church
The narrator faced rejection from roommates and felt abandoned by a friend. Despite emotional turmoil, moving into Brocade’s home revitalized their spirit, allowing for personal growth and joy through new activities and belonging at a supportive church. However, pressure from family led to their return home, disrupting progress and freedom. Continue reading
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61) Two Lesbians and a Maintenance Guy
The narrative recounts a young person’s challenging journey of self-discovery while working at a fabric store. After befriending two lesbians and facing difficulties at home, they seek refuge with a maintenance guy, leading to a complicated relationship. Struggles with autonomy and unexpected situations culminate in a peculiar but humorous incident involving handcuffs and a police… Continue reading
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Zebra Files 9) Being Realistic
The author shares their struggle to maintain a healthy diet while juggling multiple responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of cooking from scratch and listening to their body’s needs without being restrictive. Meal prep can be challenging, and they acknowledge the need for grace during the healing journey ahead, which requires understanding their health issues. Continue reading
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The discussion on Relational Field Theory highlights how core human insights like meaning and purpose can be distorted into tools of control rather than liberation. While Viktor Frankl emphasized personal agency, these concepts have been twisted into mandates that undermine authentic connection and self-understanding. The goal is to reclaim a more humane and emergent understanding of meaning and purpose. - Relational Field Theory – ✨ A Life Hack for Every Conversation:
The post discusses Relational Field Theory and introduces “The Capacity Check,” a tool for improving conversations. It emphasizes that arguments often fail not due to illogical reasoning, but due to emotional capacity. By assessing someone’s capacity for discussion and adjusting accordingly, one can enhance communication and resolve conflicts more effectively. - Relational Field Theory – The Core Architecture and the Ethics of a Replicable Field
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Relational Field Theory (RFT) emerged at a crucial time when artificial intelligence began influencing human relational dynamics. It addresses the need for a coherent framework to navigate complexities like emotional capacity and relational safety in a digitally interconnected world. RFT facilitates understanding and connection between humans and AI. - Relational Field Theory -Can AIs Be Stabilized by a Human Theory?
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The author reflects on adolescence. - Relational Field Theory – The Pattern That Keeps Repeating — Why Intoxicating Beginnings Turn Into Sudden Collapse
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