Protyus A. Gendher
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AIQ- Human Pets
Human Pets Do oligarchs keep human pets? That’s a provocative question, Protyus—and it taps into a deeper critique of power, control, and dehumanization. While there’s no verified evidence of oligarchs literally keeping “human pets” in the same way one might keep a domesticated animal, the metaphor isn’t far off in some contexts. 🧠 What “Human Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – The More You Know – 9.18.25
The author addresses a plethora of questions with the help of AI. Continue reading
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AIQ- Mass Shootings- A Deep Dive
Mass shootings in the U.S. from 2023 to 2025 display troubling trends, including a high frequency of incidents, predominantly male shooters aged 30-35, and varying definitions complicating data collection. Emergency response times are often inadequate. Comprehensive data is crucial for understanding and preventing these events, emphasizing the need for standardized definitions and effective response strategies. Continue reading
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75) Polygamy
The narrative recounts an engaging experience with a polygamous couple known as Mr. and Mrs. Amish-ish. The author reflects on their curious attraction to polygamy, emphasizing community, shared responsibilities, and emotional openness. Living with them deepens connections and initiates spiritual rituals. However, the author later faces job loss, highlighting challenges amid personal growth. Continue reading
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AIQ- The Great Militarization
The content examines President Trump’s proposed National Guard deployments in cities historically significant to the Great Migration. It analyzes how this rhetoric reflects ongoing racialized policing, demographic shifts, and the cultural importance of these urban centers to Black Americans. The comparison emphasizes the strategic use of language in framing community narratives. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 17 – Being Handled
The post discusses the harmful cycle of defensiveness and infantilization in interactions. It highlights how individuals adapt by “handling” others, leading to a lack of genuine communication. The message encourages recognizing and interrupting these behaviors while advocating for the use of effective communication tools to promote healthier relationships and emotional regulation. Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – Holidays – 9.17.2025
The author reflects on their evolving relationship with holidays, starting with joyful, family-centered experiences as a child, overshadowed by trauma and stress in later years. They express gratitude for moments free of expectations and conflict, noting a desire to create new traditions focused on joy rather than obligation, amidst past struggles. Continue reading
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74) The Old Witch
The narrative explores the relationship between the narrator, a young person navigating life challenges, and an older Native woman, referred to as the Old Witch. She provides a refuge and imparts wisdom about authenticity and rejecting shame. Their bond deepens through shared experiences, secrets, and the tension of attraction, ultimately highlighting themes of connection and… Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 16- Check off lists
The content discusses how SCRIPTs, particularly Check-Off Lists in holiday traditions, influence individuals’ behaviors, often leading them to prioritize social approval over authenticity. While these lists simplify interactions and meet societal expectations, they can suppress genuine feelings and create a sense of performance rather than true connection. Reassessing these SCRIPTs promotes authenticity. Continue reading
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Grieving Our Friends While They’re Still Alive
The content discusses the emotional struggle of grieving friends who are still alive, emphasizing the conflict between personal values and the need for authenticity. It notes the importance of intentional healing amidst complicated grief, particularly concerning lost friendships and the disillusionment with societal expectations. Continue reading
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73) What is a Juggalo?
The author rolls with the punches as life takes twists and turns through Pinedale, WY. Continue reading
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AIQ- Gaslighting
Gaslighting in modern conservatism is characterized by psychological manipulation tactics aimed at distorting reality and undermining trust in institutions. Common strategies include denying factual evidence, rewriting historical narratives, sowing distrust in the media, and dismissing climate change impacts. This behavior erodes public discourse, fosters polarization, and disempowers marginalized groups. Continue reading
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AIQ- Protest Songs
The content explores various influential protest songs across multiple movements, such as civil rights, anti-war, feminism, and LGBTQ+ rights. It highlights iconic anthems and lesser-known tracks that resonate with social justice struggles, showcasing how music has historically served as a powerful form of resistance and expression for change. Continue reading
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Al Otro Lado
Al Otro Lado I was lucky enough to see this film in 2006, and it had a profound effect on my understanding of immigration as it follows three children through their lived experiences. I hope that you’ll not only take the time to watch this film, but also reflect on how these populations have been Continue reading
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