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86) Jealousy
The author recounts the painful experience of being asked to leave a polygamous living arrangement due to jealousy. Citing ongoing turbulence with their mother they move into a dilapidated cabin, facing challenges while trying to cope with heartbreak and feelings of abandonment, longing for love and connection amidst hardships. Continue reading
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52) Human Trafficking Part Two
The content explores the cultural and religious codification of patriarchy and the resulting impact on women across various societies, including Islam, Buddhism, and Shinto. It highlights the role of women in these systems, the prevalence of human trafficking and domestic violence, and critiques the social structures that perpetuate inequality and control. Continue reading
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The Childcare Trap and Leaving Abusive Marriages
When the only babysitter you can afford is the person hurting you People often ask, “Why don’t they just leave?” But the better question is:How is anyone supposed to leave when the childcare system makes escape structurally impossible? This post maps the trap:You cannot leave an abusive partner without childcare, and you cannot get childcare… Continue reading
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51) Human Trafficking
Christian Marriage is Human Trafficking. I said what I said. Continue reading
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75) Polygamy
The narrative recounts an engaging experience with a polygamous couple known as Mr. and Mrs. Amish-ish. The author reflects on their curious attraction to polygamy, emphasizing community, shared responsibilities, and emotional openness. Living with them deepens connections and initiates spiritual rituals. However, the author later faces job loss, highlighting challenges amid personal growth. Continue reading
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