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97) Leggo My Preggo Part One
The author reflects on her unexpected pregnancy at 18, navigating her emotions and family expectations. She appreciates the support from the father of her child, emphasizing her independence and determination to raise the child on her terms. She embraces motherhood as a significant rite of passage filled with love and purpose. Continue reading
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36) My Childhood In Pictures
The post shares a nostalgic glimpse into the author’s childhood through a collection of photos, starting from a young age and including family members and pets. It reflects on hair struggles, school memories, and a specific International Day celebration. The author invites readers to enjoy this visual journey into their past. Continue reading
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What is Survivor Literacy?
What is Survivor Literacy? Survivor Literacy is the practice of learning to understand our lives with authenticity, especially after trauma or crisis. It’s the skill of naming what our bodies, our brains, and our experiences have been trying to tell us all along. When we understand how cortisol, stress, and the downstairs brain take over… Continue reading
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Survivor Literacy – Saying It Out Loud
Survivor Literacy – Saying It Out Loud Welcome to Survivor Literacy Where we finally say out loud what our nervous systems have been screaming for years. For so many of us, the body told the truth long before we had the language for it. The tightness in the chest. The shrinking. The bracing. The way… Continue reading
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62) Taking a Dip in a Really Big Church
The narrator faced rejection from roommates and felt abandoned by a friend. Despite emotional turmoil, moving into Brocade’s home revitalized their spirit, allowing for personal growth and joy through new activities and belonging at a supportive church. However, pressure from family led to their return home, disrupting progress and freedom. Continue reading
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92) Food Addiction – Ultra Processed Food
The content discusses the evolution of food processing, emphasizing the adverse effects of ultra-processed foods in America. It critiques the FDA’s reliance on food companies’ claims about safety and explores the rise of food addiction. The author calls for critical thinking about food choices and societal norms surrounding food consumption. Continue reading
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61) Two Lesbians and a Maintenance Guy
The narrative recounts a young person’s challenging journey of self-discovery while working at a fabric store. After befriending two lesbians and facing difficulties at home, they seek refuge with a maintenance guy, leading to a complicated relationship. Struggles with autonomy and unexpected situations culminate in a peculiar but humorous incident involving handcuffs and a police… Continue reading
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91) Food Addiction- How it Started
The evolution of food consumption has deeply affected human health and society. Early humans thrived on raw and foraged foods until cooking and agriculture emerged, leading to an increase in population but poorer health. Specialization and a token economy created inequalities. Today, this history contributes to widespread food addiction and obesity crisis. Continue reading
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59) T Was Easier to Love than Me
The narrative reflects on a cherished relationship with a cousin’s girlfriend who became an integral part of the family. Her bond with the narrator and their mother brought joy, laughter, and genuine connection, contrasting with the narrator’s longing for a similar closeness with their own mother. The story highlights themes of love and familial ties. Continue reading
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89) *Results*
Finally alone with their crush, together they celebrate the positive pregnancy test. Continue reading
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58) Third Wheel
This post recounts the amusing experience of a mischievous group of students, which leads to an unexpected reunion between Mr. E, and a former crush named Reticence. The narrator plays matchmaker between them, facilitating a nostalgic date at Dairy Queen, which sparks old feelings leading to a sweet, albeit brief, romance. Continue reading
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88) She Chased Me
The narrator navigates life alone and struggles with health issues, financial instability, and family estrangement. Amidst her challenges, she finds joy in new CNA classes and develops an attraction to a charming coworker. The story unfolds with hints of unexpected pregnancy and culminates in a romantic moment, revealing deeper emotional connections. Continue reading
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57) Western Wear
The narrative recounts the author’s quest for independence through their first job at a western wear store amid a strained relationship with their mother. They find excitement in their romance with a truck driver, which provides a sense of validation. However, their job ends abruptly due to a wrongful accusation, leaving them heartbroken and disheartened. Continue reading
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87) A Place for Me
The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories of familial relationships, particularly with their mother. Amidst building a fulfilling life and career as a CNA, the author navigates feelings of loss, identity, and longing for… Continue reading
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