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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 16- Check off lists
The content discusses how SCRIPTs, particularly Check-Off Lists in holiday traditions, influence individuals’ behaviors, often leading them to prioritize social approval over authenticity. While these lists simplify interactions and meet societal expectations, they can suppress genuine feelings and create a sense of performance rather than true connection. Reassessing these SCRIPTs promotes authenticity. Continue reading
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Grieving Our Friends While They’re Still Alive
The content discusses the emotional struggle of grieving friends who are still alive, emphasizing the conflict between personal values and the need for authenticity. It notes the importance of intentional healing amidst complicated grief, particularly concerning lost friendships and the disillusionment with societal expectations. Continue reading
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73) What is a Juggalo?
The author rolls with the punches as life takes twists and turns through Pinedale, WY. Continue reading
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AIQ- Rapid Removal of Rights
Since the November 2024 election, American rights have faced significant shifts under the second Trump administration. Key changes include the erosion of trust in democratic institutions, expanded surveillance, reproductive and LGBTQ+ rights restrictions, tightened immigration policies, and environmental deregulation. These measures reflect a broader ideological shift favoring national identity and executive power over pluralistic rights… Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 15 – Tiptoeing
Tiptoeing These ideas are so much better Shared!! Life off limits I watch, as people posture politely around each other, for the sake of being pleasant, or for the sake of not rocking the boat. It’s important to be polite and considerate of others, but at what cost? I watch as people tiptoe around off-limits topics, Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – 9.15.25 – Lessons Learned
The author reflects on personal struggles with self-worth shaped by societal expectations and past experiences, including being an autistic, gender nonconforming child. They emphasize that true value is not determined by others’ approval. Self-love emerged from releasing the need for validation, leading to acceptance of oneself regardless of external judgment. Continue reading
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72) Stranded
The author recounts their experience in Pinedale after a friend is arrested. Feeling vulnerable and relying on the hospitality of a local pastor’s family, they struggle with uncomfortable dynamics while trying to find stability. Eventually, they escape to live with a more relatable friend, seeking independence and employment after weeks of turmoil. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 14- Backhanded Compliments
The content discusses the concept of backhanded compliments, highlighting how these remarks tarnish genuine praise with negative undertones. It emphasizes the importance of acknowledging both the compliment and the negative comment, fostering open communication to address underlying issues. Responding calmly can lead to healing and better understanding in relationships. Continue reading
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AIQ- A Global Perspective
The content discusses a parent’s reflection on WWII and its connections to modern U.S. immigration policies, likening current detention centers to historical concentration camps. It raises important questions about conditions in these facilities, the targeting of marginalized communities, and the impact of governance on civil rights, especially around eugenics and forced sterilizations. Continue reading
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71) Wyoming by Way of Utah Part 3
The narrative describes a road trip through Utah to Salt Lake City, highlighting the challenges and experiences along the way. The protagonist deals with personal reflections on relationships and the cultural differences in Utah. After engaging with friends and facing car troubles, they consider a future in Wyoming, yearning for freedom and nature. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 13 – Themes and Patterns
Journaling aids in behavior change by helping individuals identify recurring themes and patterns, as well as triggers. Documenting thoughts through logs allows for data analysis, revealing patterns and emotional responses. Regularly reviewing this information enables individuals to recognize harmful behaviors and apply strategies to create positive change. Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – Walk or Run – 9.13.25
The author discusses the challenges of walking and running due to Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and L4 facet joint arthropathy, which cause joint pain and electrical shocks. Despite these difficulties and a spinal cord stimulator that often fails, they are gradually increasing their walking and stair climbing, focusing on recovery. Continue reading
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70) Wyoming by Way of Utah Part Two
In “Wyoming by Way of Utah Part Two,” the narrator recounts a chaotic road trip filled with challenges, including losing crucial belongings and navigating unexpected situations. While seeking jobs and support, emotions ran high among friends. Ultimately, they find the lost planner, restoring hope and camaraderie amidst their struggles. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 48) Recharge My Spinal Cord Stimulator With Me!
The author shares their experience recharging their spinal cord stimulator, showcasing videos of the process. They encourage followers to connect on various social media platforms and are open to questions about their journey. The stimulator’s battery is implanted under the skin in the lower back and requires charging through the skin. Continue reading
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a tiny spec of hope
a tiny spec of hope Somehow in the midst of this division, as I grapple with so many people I love defending their whiteness, I’ve caught the tiniest ray of hope, and it’s crucial that we share those. It’s no huge shock that the shoooter isn’t trans, because they almost never are. If it IS Continue reading
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