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74) The Old Witch
The narrative explores the relationship between the narrator, a young person navigating life challenges, and an older Native woman, referred to as the Old Witch. She provides a refuge and imparts wisdom about authenticity and rejecting shame. Their bond deepens through shared experiences, secrets, and the tension of attraction, ultimately highlighting themes of connection and… Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 16- Check off lists
The content discusses how SCRIPTs, particularly Check-Off Lists in holiday traditions, influence individuals’ behaviors, often leading them to prioritize social approval over authenticity. While these lists simplify interactions and meet societal expectations, they can suppress genuine feelings and create a sense of performance rather than true connection. Reassessing these SCRIPTs promotes authenticity. Continue reading
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Grieving Our Friends While They’re Still Alive
The content discusses the emotional struggle of grieving friends who are still alive, emphasizing the conflict between personal values and the need for authenticity. It notes the importance of intentional healing amidst complicated grief, particularly concerning lost friendships and the disillusionment with societal expectations. Continue reading
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73) What is a Juggalo?
The author rolls with the punches as life takes twists and turns through Pinedale, WY. Continue reading
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AIQ- Gaslighting
Gaslighting in modern conservatism is characterized by psychological manipulation tactics aimed at distorting reality and undermining trust in institutions. Common strategies include denying factual evidence, rewriting historical narratives, sowing distrust in the media, and dismissing climate change impacts. This behavior erodes public discourse, fosters polarization, and disempowers marginalized groups. Continue reading
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AIQ- Protest Songs
The content explores various influential protest songs across multiple movements, such as civil rights, anti-war, feminism, and LGBTQ+ rights. It highlights iconic anthems and lesser-known tracks that resonate with social justice struggles, showcasing how music has historically served as a powerful form of resistance and expression for change. Continue reading
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Al Otro Lado
Al Otro Lado I was lucky enough to see this film in 2006, and it had a profound effect on my understanding of immigration as it follows three children through their lived experiences. I hope that you’ll not only take the time to watch this film, but also reflect on how these populations have been Continue reading
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AIQ- Rapid Removal of Rights
Since the November 2024 election, American rights have faced significant shifts under the second Trump administration. Key changes include the erosion of trust in democratic institutions, expanded surveillance, reproductive and LGBTQ+ rights restrictions, tightened immigration policies, and environmental deregulation. These measures reflect a broader ideological shift favoring national identity and executive power over pluralistic rights… Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 15 – Tiptoeing
Tiptoeing These ideas are so much better Shared!! Life off limits I watch, as people posture politely around each other, for the sake of being pleasant, or for the sake of not rocking the boat. It’s important to be polite and considerate of others, but at what cost? I watch as people tiptoe around off-limits topics, Continue reading
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AIQ- Groypers and More
The Groyper Wars, initiated by Nick Fuentes in 2019, aimed to redefine American conservatism through confrontations with more moderate figures like Charlie Kirk. Using provocative tactics, Groypers promote extremist ideologies, challenging traditional conservatism. Their influence extends to school boards, employing strategies like censorship cloaked in “parental rights” rhetoric, undermining inclusive education. Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – 9.15.25 – Lessons Learned
The author reflects on personal struggles with self-worth shaped by societal expectations and past experiences, including being an autistic, gender nonconforming child. They emphasize that true value is not determined by others’ approval. Self-love emerged from releasing the need for validation, leading to acceptance of oneself regardless of external judgment. Continue reading
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72) Stranded
The author recounts their experience in Pinedale after a friend is arrested. Feeling vulnerable and relying on the hospitality of a local pastor’s family, they struggle with uncomfortable dynamics while trying to find stability. Eventually, they escape to live with a more relatable friend, seeking independence and employment after weeks of turmoil. Continue reading
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AIQ- Speaking Out
The article discusses the challenges of determining if one is on government watchlists, emphasizing indirect signs and methods for assessment. It also highlights the risks advocates face from surveillance, despite protected speech rights. Additionally, it addresses systemic barriers in reporting sexual violence and explores historical practices like COINTELPRO that suppress dissent. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 14- Backhanded Compliments
The content discusses the concept of backhanded compliments, highlighting how these remarks tarnish genuine praise with negative undertones. It emphasizes the importance of acknowledging both the compliment and the negative comment, fostering open communication to address underlying issues. Responding calmly can lead to healing and better understanding in relationships. Continue reading
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