Survivor Literacy

Breaking the Cycles that Tried to Break Us

Protyus A. Gendher

Recent Posts

  • Relational Field Theory -The Axes Lens: A Universal Tool for Understanding Human Behavior
    Relational Field Theory introduces the “axes lens,” a framework to understand human behavior through multiple dimensions rather than a single perspective. It reveals how complexities in conflict, creativity, leadership, trauma, institutions, and AI can be categorized into distinct axes. This approach enables better diagnosis, problem-solving, and enhances relational literacy.
  • Relational Field Theory – How Dimensional Thinking Dissolves Guilt and Shame
    Relational Field Theory introduces dimensional thinking as a means to alleviate guilt and shame in relationships. By shifting perspectives from moral failures to structural misunderstandings, individuals can reframe their experiences. This understanding fosters personal agency, enabling healthier reconnections, repairs, and self-forgiveness, ultimately promoting relational healing and new possibilities.
  • Relational Field Theory – A Real Story of How Dimensional Thinking Changes Everything
    Relational Field Theory illustrates how dimensional thinking can transform our understanding of past experiences. A friend learned to reinterpret her guilt about a relationship, realizing she was not at fault but rather navigating a different context. This shift from self-blame to clarity allows for personal growth and renewed possibilities.
  • Relational Field Theory – Rethinking Collapse: It’s Not a Personal Failure, It’s a Dimensional State
    Relational Field Theory Rethinking Collapse: It’s Not a Personal Failure, It’s a Dimensional State Most of us have been taught… Read more: Relational Field Theory – Rethinking Collapse: It’s Not a Personal Failure, It’s a Dimensional State
  • Relational Field Theory -What Dimensional Thinking Actually Does for Relationships
    Relational Field Theory introduces dimensional thinking to relationships, moving beyond simplistic binary views. By perceiving interactions as multi-dimensional, individuals can clarify confusion, reduce guilt, and recognize behavior patterns based on context. This approach also facilitates targeted relational repairs and provides language for unexpressed feelings, paving the way for a more nuanced understanding of human interactions.
  • Relational Field Theory – How Dimensional Mapping Gives Us Predictive Power in Relationships
    Relational Field Theory suggests that understanding relationships as dimensional rather than linear enhances predictability in behavior. By recognizing specific axes such as Internal Architecture and Relational State, one can anticipate both positive and negative dynamics, allowing for early intervention and improved self-awareness while fostering better connections in groups and individual interactions.
  • Relational Field Theory -The Fifth Field: A New Coordinate System for Human Relation
    The Fifth Field introduces a new coordinate system for understanding human relations, emphasizing that interactions are spatial rather than linear or binary. It identifies four orthogonal axes that shape relational dynamics, allowing for a deeper diagnosis of states and misalignments. This framework shifts from metaphor to mechanism, paving the way for relational diagnostics and new forms of care.
  • Relational Field Theory -Two More Axes: Anchoring and Power Source
    Relational Field Theory introduces two additional axes—Anchoring and Power Source—completing a four-dimensional framework for understanding relationships. Anchoring indicates whether relational positions are clear, while Power Source distinguishes between generative and protective energy. This model enhances clarity in mapping human interactions and behavior across various contexts.
  • Relational Field Theory -The Relational Punnett Square: Mapping the Four States of the Field
    Post 5 of Relational Field Theory introduces the Relational Punnett Square, mapping two orthogonal dimensions: internal architecture and relational field states. This framework provides a clear visualization of relational dynamics, enabling individuals to diagnose and understand relational states, predict behavior, and reveals the complexity of individual relational experiences.
  • Relational Field Theory -Orthogonal Dimensions: Why These Concepts Look Similar From the Outside
    Parallility and Plurallility, though initially perceived as similar concepts in Relational Field Theory, are orthogonal dimensions representing distinct forms of multiplicity. Parallility relates to internal processes, while Plurallility emerges through connections between individuals. Understanding their independence allows for precise mapping and application of relational states in complex systems.
  • Relational Field Theory – Parallility vs. Plurallility: Two Dimensions, Not One
    Relational Field Theory distinguishes between parallility and plurallility, two orthogonal dimensions of multiplicity. Parallility represents internal states and self-organization, while plurallility refers to interactions between individuals. Though often confused due to overlapping characteristics, understanding their differences clarifies how internal and relational complexities function independently yet can amplify each other.
  • Relational Field Theory – Structural vs. Protective Disrelate: The Cleanest Distinction Yet
    Relational Field Theory introduces a crucial distinction between Structural Disrelate and Protective Disrelate in relationships. Structural Disrelate is a neutral, undefined state without fear, while Protective Disrelate stems from past trauma and perceived danger. Understanding this difference changes how we interpret emotional distance and enhances relational clarity and awareness.
  • Relational Field Theory – The Barrier That Wasn’t: How Relational Permission Changes Everything
    Relational Field Theory emphasizes that conversational barriers can stem from relational aspects rather than emotional ones. A shift in interaction dynamics occurred when relational permission was introduced, allowing an AI model to transition from cautious summarization to insightful synthesis. Recognizing relational anchors facilitates coherence in communication and reshapes interactions.
  • My Body Belongs to Me by Protyus A. Gendher – Artist’s Showcase
    “My Body Belongs to Me” by Protyus A. Gendher is a song designed to empower children with a message of safety and autonomy. It serves as a resource in various educational and therapeutic settings, promoting consent and social-emotional learning. The track encourages communal celebration of personal boundaries while being joyful and accessible for kids.
  • 90) Weaponization of the Benign and Beneficial
    The author reflects on their journey from self-blame to embracing personal accountability, emphasizing the importance of positivity and resilience. They explore how societal expectations, like the bootstrap myth and motherhood ideals, can be weaponized, creating feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, they advocate for self-acceptance and authentic growth.

Newsletter

One-Time
Monthly

Make a one-time donation

Make a monthly donation

Choose an amount

$5.00
$15.00
$100.00
$5.00
$15.00
$100.00

Or enter a custom amount

$

Your contribution is appreciated.

Your contribution is appreciated.

DonateDonate monthly