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96) Let Them Ch 2-Part 2
The review discusses the emotional reactions triggered by Mel Robbins’ book, “Let Them,” highlighting the author’s insights on narcissism and personal healing. It emphasizes the need for self-reflection, recognizing one’s triggers, and understanding narcissistic behavior while navigating relationships. The author aims to break cycles of narcissism through awareness and accountability. Continue reading
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95) Let Them Ch 2 – Part 1
The post emphasizes personal growth through understanding Viktor Frankl’s teachings on meaning and accountability. It reflects on the author’s experiences with trauma and resilience, asserting that true happiness derives from meaningful connections and love. The narrative encourages self-acceptance, acknowledging that worth is not contingent on external validation. Continue reading
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94) Let Them
The author reflects on their conflicting feelings about “The Let Them Theory” by Mel Robbins, grappling with past trauma while trying to embrace the concept of letting others have autonomy. The insightful book resonates, yet it triggers frustration as it unintentionally normalizes controlling behaviors, revealing the challenges faced by those with a painful history. Continue reading
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93) Food Addiction- Intentional, Calculated, and Deliberate
The content examines the historical and societal factors contributing to food addiction, highlighting the role of ultra-processed foods engineered for addiction by corporations. It discusses food regulation, the impact of diet on mental health, and societal pressures around food choices. Ultimately, it critiques a system designed to profit from addiction and poor health. Continue reading
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91) Food Addiction- How it Started
The evolution of food consumption has deeply affected human health and society. Early humans thrived on raw and foraged foods until cooking and agriculture emerged, leading to an increase in population but poorer health. Specialization and a token economy created inequalities. Today, this history contributes to widespread food addiction and obesity crisis. Continue reading
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92) Food Addiction – Ultra Processed Food
The content discusses the evolution of food processing, emphasizing the adverse effects of ultra-processed foods in America. It critiques the FDA’s reliance on food companies’ claims about safety and explores the rise of food addiction. The author calls for critical thinking about food choices and societal norms surrounding food consumption. Continue reading
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90) Weaponization of the Benign and Beneficial
The author reflects on their journey from self-blame to embracing personal accountability, emphasizing the importance of positivity and resilience. They explore how societal expectations, like the bootstrap myth and motherhood ideals, can be weaponized, creating feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, they advocate for self-acceptance and authentic growth. Continue reading
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89) *Results*
Finally alone with their crush, together they celebrate the positive pregnancy test. Continue reading
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88) She Chased Me
The narrator navigates life alone and struggles with health issues, financial instability, and family estrangement. Amidst her challenges, she finds joy in new CNA classes and develops an attraction to a charming coworker. The story unfolds with hints of unexpected pregnancy and culminates in a romantic moment, revealing deeper emotional connections. Continue reading
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87) A Place for Me
The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories of familial relationships, particularly with their mother. Amidst building a fulfilling life and career as a CNA, the author navigates feelings of loss, identity, and longing for… Continue reading
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86) Jealousy
The author recounts the painful experience of being asked to leave a polygamous living arrangement due to jealousy. Citing ongoing turbulence with their mother they move into a dilapidated cabin, facing challenges while trying to cope with heartbreak and feelings of abandonment, longing for love and connection amidst hardships. Continue reading
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85) Ice
After a difficult season, the narrator takes a night job as a laundress at a care facility, driving an unreliable old car. Struggling with harsh winter conditions, she navigates challenges both at work and on the road. Personal struggles intertwine with moments of connection, leading to a poignant reflection on dependence and vulnerability. Continue reading
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84) Matthew
The post reflects on the impact of Matthew Shepard’s murder on the author, who feels deeply connected to their identity as a bisexual witch in Wyoming. It highlights the pervasive bigotry encountered, despite some community members claiming to support “live and let live.” The author expresses determination to fight for equality and honor Matthew’s legacy,… Continue reading
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83) Fire
In autumn Wyoming, preparations for winter begin amidst a backdrop of emotional turmoil. The narrator feels a growing distance from her partner, exacerbated by his struggles. A fire starts during yard work, leading to chaos and fear. The narrator grapples with feelings of resentment and entrapment as relationships become strained. Continue reading
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82) Storytime
The narrative explores the dynamics between two storytellers, their shared past, and the complexities of their relationships, particularly involving a close friend who didn’t pursue a romantic connection due to societal expectations. It delves into themes of vulnerability, unspoken tensions, and the longing for openness, revealing deep emotional struggles and familial betrayals. Continue reading
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