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Zebra Files 3) Being Treated Like a Hypochondriac
The author recounts their struggles with medical professionals who dismiss their serious symptoms as hypochondria, attributing them instead to common issues like weight. They detail multiple distressing symptoms, their search for a correct diagnosis, and a newfound awareness of potential connections to connective tissue disorders, all amid frustration and medical gaslighting. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 2) One Bite at a Time…
The blog discusses the author’s journey of managing hypermobility syndrome through diet and lifestyle changes, likening the process to “eating an elephant” one bite at a time. It reflects on past dietary experiences, the challenges of living with restrictions, and the support from family and work, emphasizing self-discovery and gradual improvement. Continue reading
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Zebra Files 1) Zebras Exist
The author reflects on their long struggle with undiagnosed health issues, leading to a recent diagnosis of Hypermobility Syndrome. After years of unrecognized symptoms and pain, they acknowledge the role social media played in self-discovery. They seek validation and connection, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and sharing their journey as a “Zebra.” Continue reading
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