Joey’s Quest for Care

More Mysteries- Finding Klinefelter’s

Starting the Search

Once again, Dr. Facebook was our first real help.

Labs

Joey’s testosterone (T) levels were low. They were so low they were nearly nonexistent.

KS went without mention, and he was referred to his first Endocrinologist, Dr. Bridenstine with Banner Health here in Northern Colorado. (He now works for UC Health in Longmont and I’m using his real name because anyone seeking help needs to be warned.)

Endocrinology

Dr. Bridenstine, despite seeing the very low T levels, despite the presence of hypogonadism, which he verified himself, told Joey that he should stop listening to radio commercials hoping for a bigger boner, and tried to talk Joey out of trying T therapy.

During this appointment, Joey was wholeheartedly dismissed, and had to beg for help.

Dr. Bridenstine should have ordered a karyotype test that same day. He did not. He didn’t mention it at all.

He referred Joey to a urologist, because in addition to overheating all of the time, Joey also has to use the bathroom upwards of 20 times a day. He also ordered an ultrasound of Joey’s testicles, to make sure they exist, because they could not be located during the exam.

He started Joey on weekly injectable T, and strongly urged Joey to be screened for Sleep Apnea which can interfere with treatment.

Urology

Sleep Apnea

Trudging Forward

This enabled him to restart T, but this time in the form of the gel.

Despite therapy for a variety of symptoms, many of the symptoms were getting worse.

Trying to Access Care

When Joey first approached his GP with his list of symptoms, Dr. Hardon said he could only address one thing at a time, and that Joey would need to make repeated trips to address the rest. He’s been going about monthly for 3 years now.

Dr. Hardon refused to look at the list as a combined presentation. He looked at one symptom at a time, and would test/prescribe/refer for each symptom, citing the 15-minute visit limitation as the barrier to holistic care.

I have felt very deeply from the beginning, that each of these symptoms are only part of a larger syndrome or disorder. Dr. Hardon wasn’t going to look for it, and endocrinology and urology refused as well.

I dug deeper. I searched and searched for a combined answer.

Klinefelter’s Syndrome

Additionally, men with Klinefelter’s may experience:

Testing??

Refusal to Help

When the test came back, it confirmed Klinefelter’s Syndrome.

We somehow thought that figuring out what was causing it would cause some level of increased or redirected care. Not so.

Despite the fact that Klinefelter’s affects Joey’s mental state, testosterone, and almost every system in his body, Dr. Hardon told him not to get hung up on the Klinefelter’s, claiming that it only affects his T level, and doesn’t really matter.

WHAT?!?

He still refused to see the big picture. Instead of joining Joey in understanding the role an extra X chromosome has played in his bodily experience, Dr. Hardon dismissed the request as some machismatic gender dysphoria and just said “Look, you’re still a man.”

That wasn’t the question or request, but he certainly revealed his priorities in the conversation. I’m very grateful to Dr. Hardon, and still recognize that this is the border of his utility as part of Joey’s care team.

He referred Joey for genetic counseling- to the only geneticist in the state that handles such cases- the same geneticist I was referred to with the 12-18- month waiting list just to be able to make the appointment.

Joey called DAILY for a while, and I’m happy to announce that he has an appointment in June.

That’s more than 7 months from the time of diagnosis. 7+ months of just waiting to know anything of use. 7+ months without coordinated care, which is repeatedly called for in the sparse literature available about KS.

The myriad of symptoms don’t let up just because it’s not urgent to anybody else. That reality is incredibly taxing, both mentally and physically, for a person who is already in need of help.

Changing Care

Joey pushed to be moved from Banner Endocrinology to UC Health Endocrinology (I will compare Banner and UC Health more in another post).

Dysautonomia

Photo from The Dysautonomia Project

The UC Health endocrinologist was wonderful despite our nerves being wracked by the PTSD of so much medical dismissal.

Dr. Katwal reviewed the information that we had prepared, and was very willing to see the big picture. She is also willing to be a part of the team that will use a multidisciplinary approach– because she can’t work outside of her specialty.

Further Care

This is not health care.



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