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63) It All Fell Apart
The author recounts tense family dynamics that lead to them leaving home. Here home, school, and work converge to compel the authors risky behaviors. Continue reading
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The author’s mom discovers evidence of abuse, and blames and shames to make it go away. Continue reading
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