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List of Demands
List of Demands After this week’s “Special Meeting,” I am appauled at what’s been allowed to take place. We need to make a unified statement. I’m preparing this list of demands to present together in chambers. I’m preparing a much lengthier poem to represent the big picture. If you don’t see yourself reflected in these Continue reading
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AIQ – When Weaponized Procedure Violates Decorum
The Loveland City Council is accused of misusing procedural rules to suppress dissent while demanding decorum. Citizens cannot formally raise points of order, limiting their capacity to challenge misconduct. The council’s tactical obstruction of emotional advocacy undermines transparency and accountability, contributing to a structural void for unrepresented voices during public meetings. Continue reading
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91) Food Addiction- How it Started
The evolution of food consumption has deeply affected human health and society. Early humans thrived on raw and foraged foods until cooking and agriculture emerged, leading to an increase in population but poorer health. Specialization and a token economy created inequalities. Today, this history contributes to widespread food addiction and obesity crisis. Continue reading
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92) Food Addiction – Ultra Processed Food
The content discusses the evolution of food processing, emphasizing the adverse effects of ultra-processed foods in America. It critiques the FDA’s reliance on food companies’ claims about safety and explores the rise of food addiction. The author calls for critical thinking about food choices and societal norms surrounding food consumption. Continue reading
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AIQ – Special Meeting Aftermath – Loveland Housing Crisis
After last night’s special meeting, I thought it would be good to check in with Copilot. We’re a long way from getting to the bottom of this, and half of our leadership is pulling out all of the stops to avoid treating human beings as people. Can you tell me what the buzz is in Continue reading
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90) Weaponization of the Benign and Beneficial
The author reflects on their journey from self-blame to embracing personal accountability, emphasizing the importance of positivity and resilience. They explore how societal expectations, like the bootstrap myth and motherhood ideals, can be weaponized, creating feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, they advocate for self-acceptance and authentic growth. Continue reading
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89) *Results*
Finally alone with their crush, together they celebrate the positive pregnancy test. Continue reading
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88) She Chased Me
The narrator navigates life alone and struggles with health issues, financial instability, and family estrangement. Amidst her challenges, she finds joy in new CNA classes and develops an attraction to a charming coworker. The story unfolds with hints of unexpected pregnancy and culminates in a romantic moment, revealing deeper emotional connections. Continue reading
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87) A Place for Me
The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories of familial relationships, particularly with their mother. Amidst building a fulfilling life and career as a CNA, the author navigates feelings of loss, identity, and longing for… Continue reading
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86) Jealousy
The author recounts the painful experience of being asked to leave a polygamous living arrangement due to jealousy. Citing ongoing turbulence with their mother they move into a dilapidated cabin, facing challenges while trying to cope with heartbreak and feelings of abandonment, longing for love and connection amidst hardships. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 29 – More Happy Child
The author shares a transformative experience using “The Happy Child,” which significantly improved their relationship with their child. Through shared lessons, they process trauma, discuss parenting mistakes, and role-play new approaches. This dynamic change fosters emotional safety and trust, leading to better communication and healing within the family. Highly recommended resource. Continue reading
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85) Ice
After a difficult season, the narrator takes a night job as a laundress at a care facility, driving an unreliable old car. Struggling with harsh winter conditions, she navigates challenges both at work and on the road. Personal struggles intertwine with moments of connection, leading to a poignant reflection on dependence and vulnerability. Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 28 – The Happy Child
The Happy Child app offers parents concise daily lessons that enhance their relationship with children based on scientific research. Users can choose their learning pace, typically starting with just five minutes daily. The app promotes love and recognition of a child’s choices, encouraging improved family dynamics and positive parenting practices. Continue reading
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84) Matthew
The post reflects on the impact of Matthew Shepard’s murder on the author, who feels deeply connected to their identity as a bisexual witch in Wyoming. It highlights the pervasive bigotry encountered, despite some community members claiming to support “live and let live.” The author expresses determination to fight for equality and honor Matthew’s legacy,… Continue reading
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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 27 – TEAM
The author recounts their family’s struggles during the pandemic, emphasizing the importance of treating each other as teammates. Initial cohabitation challenges led to feelings of overwhelm and disconnection. Through therapy, they learned to foster collaboration, communicate supportively, and reassess interactions to create a nurturing home environment, ultimately promoting healing and understanding. Continue reading
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The narrator navigates life alone and struggles with health issues, financial instability, and family estrangement. Amidst her challenges, she finds joy in new CNA classes and develops an attraction to a charming coworker. The story unfolds with hints of unexpected pregnancy and culminates in a romantic moment, revealing deeper emotional connections.
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