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97) Leggo My Preggo Part One
The author reflects on her unexpected pregnancy at 18, navigating her emotions and family expectations. She appreciates the support from the father of her child, emphasizing her independence and determination to raise the child on her terms. She embraces motherhood as a significant rite of passage filled with love and purpose. Continue reading
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96) Let Them Ch 2-Part 2
The review discusses the emotional reactions triggered by Mel Robbins’ book, “Let Them,” highlighting the author’s insights on narcissism and personal healing. It emphasizes the need for self-reflection, recognizing one’s triggers, and understanding narcissistic behavior while navigating relationships. The author aims to break cycles of narcissism through awareness and accountability. Continue reading
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Quadrants of Morality
In State of Fear, Michael Crichton says that there are four ways of doing things. Understanding this forever changed me, and the way I look at life and understand people. Tonight, there’s a council meeting. At the special meeting, Four of the council members, along with the City Manager and City Attorney tried very hard Continue reading
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95) Let Them Ch 2 – Part 1
The post emphasizes personal growth through understanding Viktor Frankl’s teachings on meaning and accountability. It reflects on the author’s experiences with trauma and resilience, asserting that true happiness derives from meaningful connections and love. The narrative encourages self-acceptance, acknowledging that worth is not contingent on external validation. Continue reading
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94) Let Them
The author reflects on their conflicting feelings about “The Let Them Theory” by Mel Robbins, grappling with past trauma while trying to embrace the concept of letting others have autonomy. The insightful book resonates, yet it triggers frustration as it unintentionally normalizes controlling behaviors, revealing the challenges faced by those with a painful history. Continue reading
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Council Member – McFall – Eugenicist and Silencer
Council Member – McFall – Eugenicist and Silencer This is so gross to watch. Check out this clip where “McFall for All,” weaponizes procedure combined with his crass contempt to attempt to seize control of the narrative. He’s not here FOR anybody. He’s a disruptor of any process that might serve the public. See for Continue reading
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93) Food Addiction- Intentional, Calculated, and Deliberate
The content examines the historical and societal factors contributing to food addiction, highlighting the role of ultra-processed foods engineered for addiction by corporations. It discusses food regulation, the impact of diet on mental health, and societal pressures around food choices. Ultimately, it critiques a system designed to profit from addiction and poor health. Continue reading
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“City Council” by Protyus A. Gendher – Ward 3
I know I’m missing some points. Please tell me what I missed. We deserve representation. We are in this together, and in combining our voices, we are mighty. Look, the overnight shelter closing wouldn’t be a crisis If it hadn’t been manufactured behind a mask of niceness. Because it was SUPPOSED to be fine. There Continue reading
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List of Demands
List of Demands After this week’s “Special Meeting,” I am appauled at what’s been allowed to take place. We need to make a unified statement. I’m preparing this list of demands to present together in chambers. I’m preparing a much lengthier poem to represent the big picture. If you don’t see yourself reflected in these Continue reading
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AIQ – When Weaponized Procedure Violates Decorum
The Loveland City Council is accused of misusing procedural rules to suppress dissent while demanding decorum. Citizens cannot formally raise points of order, limiting their capacity to challenge misconduct. The council’s tactical obstruction of emotional advocacy undermines transparency and accountability, contributing to a structural void for unrepresented voices during public meetings. Continue reading
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91) Food Addiction- How it Started
The evolution of food consumption has deeply affected human health and society. Early humans thrived on raw and foraged foods until cooking and agriculture emerged, leading to an increase in population but poorer health. Specialization and a token economy created inequalities. Today, this history contributes to widespread food addiction and obesity crisis. Continue reading
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92) Food Addiction – Ultra Processed Food
The content discusses the evolution of food processing, emphasizing the adverse effects of ultra-processed foods in America. It critiques the FDA’s reliance on food companies’ claims about safety and explores the rise of food addiction. The author calls for critical thinking about food choices and societal norms surrounding food consumption. Continue reading
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AIQ – Special Meeting Aftermath – Loveland Housing Crisis
After last night’s special meeting, I thought it would be good to check in with Copilot. We’re a long way from getting to the bottom of this, and half of our leadership is pulling out all of the stops to avoid treating human beings as people. Can you tell me what the buzz is in Continue reading
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90) Weaponization of the Benign and Beneficial
The author reflects on their journey from self-blame to embracing personal accountability, emphasizing the importance of positivity and resilience. They explore how societal expectations, like the bootstrap myth and motherhood ideals, can be weaponized, creating feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, they advocate for self-acceptance and authentic growth. Continue reading
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AIQ – Notes From the Special Meeting – Homelessness
The meeting regarding Loveland’s unhoused revealed systemic issues, including the council’s deflection of citizen concerns and lack of a long-term shelter plan post-closure. The city’s budget shortfall, exacerbated by the repeal of a grocery tax, led to service cuts. Transparency gaps persist, highlighting a failure of ethical governance. Continue reading
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