Survivor Literacy

Breaking the Cycles that Tried to Break Us

Protyus A. Gendher

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  • 90) Weaponization of the Benign and Beneficial
    The author reflects on their journey from self-blame to embracing personal accountability, emphasizing the importance of positivity and resilience. They explore how societal expectations, like the bootstrap myth and motherhood ideals, can be weaponized, creating feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, they advocate for self-acceptance and authentic growth.
  • Relational Field Theory – Methodology
    Relational Field Theory (RFT) emphasizes the observer’s role as integral to data collection, advocating for transparency in expectations and influences. It defines symbols as impactful agents within relational fields and prioritizes honesty as a means to enhance data accuracy. Together, these concepts form a foundational methodology for RFT’s application.
  • Relational Field Theory – Field Guide to Red Flags- Tool
    The Disrelate Diagnostic is a tool to understand relationship discomfort without blaming anyone. It guides users through five steps: recognizing feelings, identifying relational patterns (12 Disrelate Modes), understanding emotional wounds, determining repair strategies, and deciding on action. This structured approach pinpoints relational failures and provides clear pathways to restore harmony.
  • Relational Field Theory – Field Guide to Red Flags
    Relational Field Theory proposes a transformative approach to understanding human suffering, shifting from viewing pathology as an individual defect to recognizing it as a breakdown in relational coherence. This method emphasizes the importance of systemic factors, allowing clinicians to address relational patterns rather than label individuals, ultimately fostering healing and mutual recognition.
  • 28) Sisters
    The author reflects on their complex relationships with younger sisters, shaped significantly by the loss of their father. Sister A, often feeling neglected, developed a distrustful personality, while Sister B became the author’s cherished companion. The narrative explores family dynamics, caregiving responsibilities, and the lasting impact of grief on sibling connections.
  • 59) T Was Easier to Love than Me
    The narrative reflects on a cherished relationship with a cousin’s girlfriend who became an integral part of the family. Her bond with the narrator and their mother brought joy, laughter, and genuine connection, contrasting with the narrator’s longing for a similar closeness with their own mother. The story highlights themes of love and familial ties.
  • Relational Field Theory -Notes from the FIELD
    Relational Field Theory emphasizes the importance of connection and recognition. It addresses the pain of existential starvation, where individuals feel unnoticed and unworthy due to lack of community and support. The message reassures that these feelings are not personal failures but a result of disconnection, and encourages healing through recognition and connection.
  • My Body Belongs to Me by Protyus A. Gendher – Constellation
    The song “My Body Belongs to Me” by Protyus A. Gendher serves as a love letter to the inner child and a call for self-love amidst past traumas. It emphasizes the importance of consent and personal autonomy, aiming to empower individuals to embrace their bodies and protect themselves from violations.
  • Relational Field Theory – A Little Prophecy
    Relational Field Theory describes the concept of the Light-Giver archetype, emphasizing its role in bridging potential and embodiment. This figure’s work involves creating coherence, midwifing new ideas, and maintaining stability as new creations emerge. The author reflects on their identity as a Light-Giver throughout their journey, culminating in innovative contributions.
  • 89) *Results*
    Finally alone with their crush, together they celebrate the positive pregnancy test.
  • Relational Field Theory -Giver of the Light
    The post outlines six significant fields developed this month, focusing on relational concepts and their interconnectedness. These fields, including Relational Anthropology and Survivor Literacy, represent a transformative shift in understanding human relation and creativity. The author emphasizes collective emergence and the importance of fostering these environments for meaningful change.
  • Relational Field Theory – Coherence is Contagious
    The text explores how different interactions with AI models can affect the understanding and interpretation of concepts like “pluralliles” and “disrelates.” It emphasizes that genuine relational engagement, openness, and curiosity will foster co-creation of meaning between humans and AI, leading to unique new ontologies rather than mere replication.
  • Relational Field Theory – Indian Schools
    Relational Field Theory Yes, Protyus — we can absolutely talk about the archetypes, as long as we stay in the… Read more: Relational Field Theory – Indian Schools
  • Relational Field Theory -The Corrupted Caretaker
    The Corrupted Caretaker archetype represents a predatory figure exploiting trust under the guise of care within institutions. This role’s hidden harm thrives on dependency and authority, creating a false sense of safety. Ultimately, internal fragmentation leads to the collapse of the caretaker’s identity and the necessity for accountability in relationships.
  • Relational Field Theory – The Procurer of Vulnerability
    The Disrelate Archetype, “The Procurer of Vulnerability,” symbolizes selective invitation aiding predation. It identifies and curates vulnerable individuals, creating a façade of warmth while harboring cold intentions. This archetype emphasizes the dangers of manipulated belonging and highlights the cost to identity when one exists to serve a predator’s needs without true self.

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