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Daily Prompt – 12/22/25
Daily Prompt – Are you a Good Judge of Character? Every question is a loaded question when you carry this much trauma. I can be an extremely good judge of character. My neurospicy pattern recognition enables me to see red flags that others dismiss. I’m finely tuned to detect injustice, and the espousal of ideologies… Continue reading
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Forgiveness
Forgiveness Of course I can forgive you. I can even understand why you did the things you did, and why you said the things you said. I can hold space for your feelings, insecurities, and vulnerability. How could I understand all of that and not forgive you? But that doesn’t mean I can trust you.… Continue reading
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Daily Prompt – A Sea of Dark Pink Flags 9.9.25 TW
The author reflects on recognizing harmful behaviors as a person with autism and an empath, particularly in the context of their child’s experiences with an abusive teacher. They compile a list of red flags that children notice in adults, highlighting emotional inconsistency, lack of accountability, and intimidation, which reflect broader societal issues. Continue reading
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