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  • August 4, 2026

    The Economics of the Double Day

    The Economics of the Double Day

    Why one person cannot do two full‑time jobs, and why the system pretends they can The “double day” is often framed as a cultural or emotional burden — the idea that a parent works a paid job and then comes home to a second unpaid shift of caregiving, housework, and emotional labor. But the double… Continue reading

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