We Believe You
- Acting incapable to make others step in and take over.
- Using incompetence as a strategy to avoid responsibility.
- Presenting oneself as too overwhelmed to function.
- Requiring others to manage basic tasks.
- Collapsing emotionally to force intervention.
- Pretending not to understand simple requests.
- Using helplessness to control the pace of the relationship.
- Making others feel obligated to rescue them.
- Avoiding accountability by claiming inability.
- Using fragility to manipulate outcomes.
- Acting confused to derail conversations.
- Relying on others to solve predictable problems.
- Using “I can’t” to shut down boundaries.
- Making others responsible for their emotional state.
- Weaponizing incompetence to maintain dependence.



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